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Coming Out | I asked in faith, nothing wavering…

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I don’t enjoy telling my coming out story. It doesn’t make me feel brave or justified. In fact, I don’t think of it as my story at all, because I didn’t get to tell it the way I would have … Read the rest here

Coming Out | I told him everything…

Posted 6 years ago Tagged

I grew up thinking it wasn’t possible to just BE gay— it was something one had to CHOOSE. It wasn’t until after my mission that I realized it wasn’t a choice for me at all.

I fell fast and hard … Read the rest here

Coming Out | Trust yourself, kid…you’ve got this!

Posted 7 years ago Tagged

My coming out story was a bit different. I came out the year my birth country became a democracy. I was pretty young, but got kicked out of home. I finished high school and worked in a restaurant. Sparks flew … Read the rest here

Coming Out | Butterflies hit my stomach

Posted 7 years ago Tagged

When I was a child growing up in the church I always pictured myself growing up, finding a handsome returned missionary, dotting off to the nearest temple and raising a family of boys in Mormon bliss. It would be fair … Read the rest here

Coming Out | God Would Fix Me, Right?

Posted 7 years ago Tagged

I contemplated sharing my story because it doesn’t match the “happy and sappy” Mormon coming out experiences that we often find in this culture. But, I figured someone else might have a situation similar to mine and I should at … Read the rest here

Coming Out | Rising Above Fear and Doubt

Posted 7 years ago Tagged

No matter how much you’ve tried to deny it, you’ve likely come to the realization that you ARE gay, or lesbian, or trans or somewhere on the spectrum. For most of us, in or out of the Church, you’ve really … Read the rest here

Coming Out | Closets Are For Hangers

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Thank you for giving me a place to share my story. This is the first time I have ever sat down to share this part of me. As a little girl I always knew I liked other girls in a … Read the rest here

Coming Out | Don’t ask, don’t tell

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I remember it like it was yesterday.  Here I was: 23 years old, and serving in the U.S. Army during the time of “Don’t ask, don’t tell.”  Like so many others in my situation, I was terrified of coming out. … Read the rest here

Coming Out | We are all worthy of love

Posted 7 years ago Tagged

I’m not gay. I have read so many beautiful and depressing stories here and as a straight woman, and member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints, so many of you were failed by our religious community. … Read the rest here

Coming Out | I did all the things I was “supposed” to do

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I knew from a very early age (around 8 years of age) that I was “different.” I had a fascination for boys and masculinity, but didn’t know what that meant. Coincidentally, that was the age at which I was baptized. … Read the rest here

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I’m just out here doing the Lord’s work. 😂😂

Thank you for following along. Thank you for commenting. Thanks to those who share our content. Thank you to those who push back, and thank you for adding your own perspective.

My goal has always been to share stories and experiences that are not always mainstream, not always comfortable, and not always easy to understand. Sometimes our stories are overlooked. Sometimes they are controversial. The point is not that you will agree with every story. The point is that you may finally understand someone else’s.

That is why we talk.

I welcome the bigots, the phobes, the newly out, the curious, the questioning, the seasoned, and everyone still figuring out where they stand. We can have hard conversations. We can disagree. We can share lived experience. We can be civil.

But this is still my space. You are a guest here. Treat my home with respect. Be well. And may God continue to bless your social media feed with LatterGayStories. 😘
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I’ve heard it again and again: “You can leave the church, but you just can’t leave it alone.”

Familiar? Yup.

The assumption behind that line is that speaking about the church—especially critically—means you’re bitter, stuck, or unable to move on.

That’s not what’s happening.

When you criticize a system, a lot of people hear it as a direct criticism of them. Not because that’s what you said, but because they’ve tied their identity so closely to the church that the two feel inseparable.

So instead of engaging the issue, they defend the system—because it feels like defending themselves.

That’s why deconstruction matters. It’s a tool.

It creates space to separate your identity from the institution. To ask what you actually believe, and what you’ve simply been taught to accept without question.

Because institutions—churches, governments, communities—can get things wrong. Sometimes in ways that cause real harm.

And people are often taught to overlook that. Not because they can’t see it, but because they’ve been told that calling it out signals disloyalty.

It doesn’t.

Calling something out isn’t about “not leaving it alone.” It’s about refusing to pretend something is fine when it isn’t.

Accountability isn’t betrayal. It’s what keeps systems honest. It’s what allows people inside them to have a fair, honest experience.

And for some of us, speaking up isn’t about staying stuck in the past.

It’s about making sure others don’t have to go through the same things we did.

And for the people who still say it—who think speaking up means I “can’t leave it alone”—here’s something to sit with:

Can you hear criticism of a system without taking it as criticism of yourself?

If the same issue showed up in another church, would you call it out there?

If someone inside the church is being harmed, is staying quiet really the better option?

If you didn’t know this was your church—if you were hearing it from the outside—how would it sound to you?

Is loyalty protecting the institution, or making sure it’s honest?

Because talking about something isn’t the same as being stuck in it.

And silence has never made anything better for the people living inside it.
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