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  1. Lisa Koehler (reply)

    March 5, 2021 at 3:04 pm

    The title of this story is spot on … This is definitely an assumption that I myself have made. My question is, what would you have someone say?
    Sadly if I asked something along the lines of “do twins run in your or your wife’s family?” I’m not only assuming your straight but that they’re biological as well. Assuming they’re biological and finding out they’re adopted is typically met with joy, where assuming you’re straight and finding out you’re gay might be met with quite the opposite. Similarly, if I say “does your wife work or your husband if your gay” and I find out you’re straight, I will have offended you for implying you might be gay. 🤷🏼‍♀️ After reading your story I will definitely be more mindful in my conversations at the playground and everywhere else. Congratulations on your twins, I have twins and Twins are great. I hope someday my son and his husband can adopt children of their own.

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